Even with the sun shining brightly outside, you might be feeling as if a dark cloud is hanging over your head now that you split with you significant other.
No matter how much you try to smile, you know you are going home to an empty house that your ex just left. And as you go over everything in your head, you wonder if getting back together with your ex is even possible.
Though it may seem impossible at this point, getting back together with your ex is not. Most breakups revolve around misunderstandings and neither person really wants to go through a breakup.
Even if your ex had it planned, a breakup is a scary time of unpredictability where neither of you know what the future holds. It is your job to convince them that both of you are worth fighting for and can be back together again.
As hard as this may sound, the first thing you need to do is accept the breakup. It will make you look more mature to your ex and show that you can respect them by giving them some time to themselves.
Do not call, text, or message them on any social network. Take advantage of the fact that they are alone as well – give them a chance to miss you.
Use this time to prepare and better yourself. Work out and try getting back in shape. Try on some of those outfits that they loved, or the latest trendy fashions. If you have hygiene issues, go see a specialist like a dermatologist or a dentist for example, to take care of these.
This will not only make you look better, but will also make you feel more confident and help relieve some of your stress. When they see you again, you want to remind them of what they are missing out on.
Also, make it seem like you are over your ex. Go out and have a good time on a casual date or have some fun with friends. If your ex is home alone, they will more than likely be thinking about you and want to know about what you have been up to, especially if friends are telling them how great you are doing.
Going out with mutual friends can give you this advantage. You could also learn how your ex is doing without having to beg them for this information.
Your new look and confidence will spark an interest in you again in no time, making them wish you both fixed things sooner.
Don’t forget to add a little extra charm when you do see them next. Make sure to be as courteous and chivalrous as you were when you first started dating, hold the door for them and let them know that you appreciate every little thing they do.
If you do all of these things you will be on the right path to get back together with your ex.