Throughout your life you may have been taught that nearly anything could be fixed with logic and solid reasoning. Yet, for the first time, you are learning that there is nothing logical about love and your ex-girlfriend. Every time you try reasoning with her as to why you should still be together, you end up angering her and leaving frustrated, wondering why you even bothered. Over time you begin to question if saving your relationship is even possible.
Unfortunately as you might have guessed by now, if you are interested in saving your relationship you cannot reason with your ex-girlfriend about love. Trying to do so will only harm your chances of getting back with your ex by making her feel like you really don’t care about her feelings. If you want to learn how to save your relationship you will have to take on a different approach. The secret to saving your relationship has nothing to do with logic and reasoning, but instead on how successful you are at creating attraction. The following tips will help boost your confidence and recreate the attraction your ex-girlfriend felt towards you when you first started dating.
(Note: Even though these tips are targeted at men, they can be very easily applied to women as well.)
Five Tips for Creating Attraction:
Women want a confident man who can sweep them off their feet. Show her you are confident in yourself by being more assertive. Exercise and try to improve your own body so you feel better about yourself. Let her see that you are happy with the person you are and that you don’t need any reassurance.
If you really want to save the relationship stop clinging to your ex-girlfriend. Calling her all the time to tell her how much you love her makes you seem needy and desperate. Nothing will kill your chances of getting your ex back faster than this. Show her that you are a confident, assertive and independent man who is in control of his world.
3. Nice Guys [Don’t] Finish Last:
As much as people say otherwise, the expression ‘nice guys finish last’ is not completely true. What is true is that guys who are timid and unwilling to stand up for themselves will never get girls. Prove to her that you can be nice and polite while still showing that you are not a pushover.
4. Physical Attraction:
Even if you have grow accustomed to slacking on personal hygiene with her, DON’T. Continue to shave and taking care of yourself the same way you did while the two of you were still dating. Dress well every time you see her and make it clear that you still want her attention. Wear that cologne she loved on you to let her know that you do listen to her.
To many women, their best friend is also their lover. Let her talk to you about her feelings and emotions and LISTEN to her. Emotions are not logical and if you can’t understand this simple fact, you will not be able to connect with women. Be there for her no matter how illogical the situation might seem to you.
Even though logic can fix most situations, it cannot fix your chances of saving your relationship. If you follow these simple tips, you will find that your ex-girlfriend will not only become more attracted to you, but also be more willing to work together to save the relationship.